love,loss and despair

''Even in that most important area of her life,love,she had failed to commit herself...She feared pain,loss and separation.These things were inevitable on the path to love, and the only way of avoiding them was by deciding not to take that path at all.In order not to suffer,you had to renounce love.It was like putting out your own eyes in order not to see the bad things in life...''

However love is not a decision entirely.Its part of ones progress in the path of life.The divinity of its essence however requires depth,which if missing, confuses the entire entity and one ends up losing it at the end.Here comes the separation and pain which leads to the search all over again.